"I have decided I will not share my wife with another man. If you do not cut off all contact immediately then I will do what I need to do in order to protect myself, up to and including filing for divorce."
I like the ending better. Thanks Starsk.
Yes, that simple. It's non-negotiable and she has a choice in how she behaves.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
No, never been married. I'm a thirteen yr old boy in the UK.
Still married.
I know it sounds crazy but let her go, so she can choose for herself. Take al the pressure off and let her go if she wants but you won't abide by that behavior in your home. Protect yourself and your family. She will respect you for that.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
To help detach do activities outside of the home. I know you meditate and teach Judo, but try something different that requires group interaction like a vollyball league etc. Anything, that is fun, challenging and does not require a lot of mental processing. Maybe Time can help you out there
ok I printed out exactly what coach wrote and I am going to give it to her in an envelope before I go teach tonight. I don't think there's anything to really discuss with her.
