This morning WAW called to say good morning to the baby whom i had overnight. Once finished, I said ok have a great day, goodbye, and she stopped me and asked how i was doing, i said fine. Not reading into that but it was something out of the norm. Then she asked me not to attend anymore of the SS soccer games. She took him to counseling and there is alot of stuff rolling around in his head, and he needs to be away from me for a while, not saying its forever, but please respect that. And i agreed and said goodbye.......
This strikes me as really odd. You've been in your SS's life for nine years, and suddenly you can't attend soccer games.
I am in a bit of the same situation with a SS (11) that i have been heavily involved with most of his life. When the M was good I took him to the huge majority of all his sports and functions and prob spent more time with him than his mother as she worked shifts.
After the Separation i was shut out of his life for much the same reasons and he started acting strange towards me and it hurt. Recently when some mutual friends were minding him he opened up to them and said he really misses me and realizes all i did for him but did not want to anger his mom by being nice to me. He then asked if he could write me a card which he did. W went ballistic when she heard about it.
So maybe his reaction to you is just coming from a desire not to anger her. An angry WAW is not always thinking of the kids
