Originally Posted By: WithoutANet
What are the rules for ML? Should I put put some appetizers, or a sandwich tray? Or should I just keep my awesome new underclothes to myself?


Quote:
I need to detach. I need to stop wallowing in the shadow of this relationship and stop demeaning myself through my own grovelling actions. Jeeze, it's been six months, and I don't really feel like I've made any headway. He doesn't respect me because I don't respect myself.


Why are you leaping into ML with him? Or expecting to?