I want to let her husband know, thing is, he lives in Texas, he doesn't have facebook, and I have no means of contacting him. That would honestly be my first step, because I want to know what he knows, apparently they are in marriage counselling, so perhaps she has been somewhat transparent with him. I know that he is looking at her phone records because they are using blocked numbers to communicate.
He still calls me every day too and acts like he is working on the M.
