I agree about chasing too, but is it chasing if I say hey let's sit down and talk about this a little. Or if I say I would like to understand why you feel like you feel about this, can we have a face to face or phone call. But those things seem like persueing to me.
And Time, sorry I don't have a sec to brief you on my sitch. I'll do it after work. I did put the link to the original if u have a sec to breeze over it.