We are all here because just like you we were shocked, humiliated, castrated....you name we felt it when our spouses dropped the bomb. We all use different styles to get our point across and one is a little sarcastic humor as a 2x4 to wake up the LBS. We post because we do care in helping the one in need see the path that he/she has to take.
Judo, he!! two months ago I spent two weeks agonizing on whether I should send my stbxw an email wishing her a happy birthday. If her birthday was today I would have treated as just another day. So I guess I am saying is we are trying to wake you up so that you can process your sitch so that you take the proper approach.
