Then if she gets cross, you stand up for yourself. "I was interested in what you were telling me, so there's no need to be cross with me because you don't have to answer the question, and if you don't know, then you don't know".
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
She also talked about how the separation seemed to be working. I asked her what she meant by working and she talked about how we both seem to be growing as people. Her big growth though dealt with doing more things for herself because she feel like now i did to much. I said thats fine but what exactly is this working towards. She really wouldnt specify and i wasnt going to bring up the R or say do you mean working for us to get back together. She said she needed to work on her and that feeling like she isnt good enough wasnt good. I asked what she was doing to try to work on that and she said she doesnt know yet.
So then do I just continue to wait for the few opportunities that we have to talk about making her feel better. She isn't coming to me with any of this until I say something to her.
So then do I just continue to wait for the few opportunities that we have to talk about making her feel better. She isn't coming to me with any of this until I say something to her.
Do what works.
Be the strong wise attractive man she wants you to be.
I agree about chasing too, but is it chasing if I say hey let's sit down and talk about this a little. Or if I say I would like to understand why you feel like you feel about this, can we have a face to face or phone call. But those things seem like persueing to me.
And Time, sorry I don't have a sec to brief you on my sitch. I'll do it after work. I did put the link to the original if u have a sec to breeze over it.
