You all are so right. My biggest focus has been on me and that has been my area of concentration. That book Codependent NO More by Beattie has been helpful to me. I know she would be looking for a new Bobby. I have been staying busy with my hobbies and work and friends and family. She has been calling multiple times but I do not take all her calls. I figure if it is important then she will leave a message. I will keep reading and learning. Thanks Bobby O
