Violin -
That's funny, all those cougars out there. And here I am an unwilling one!

I didn't contact the 27 year old - he contacted me. And I wouldn't have chatted with him except he was so funny and charming - and persistent.

The 34 year old looked at my profile first, and had an entertaining screen name, so I checked out his profile. It was so clever that I DID write to him, but only to say his profile was clever and to wish him luck - and too bad he wasn't 10 or 20 years older.

He wrote back saying if I changed my mind..... and I said if I ever took that rocket ship into outer space where I come back 1 year older to his twenty, I would look him up.

That was it for several weeks until he came back online looking for me and chatted me up. By that time I decided what the hell, couldn't hurt to just meet him for a drink?

That's me - the Accidental Cougar.