Give us an example how it went down when she got mad.
Ok, an example would be, she said i feel like you deserve better, I deserve to be alone, ive always felt that way. So then i ask her if she was ever happy, and she says yes. I then ask what is it that makes her feel that way, could she give me a reason why? And she says its just how i feel, i dont know, i just feel how i feel <angrily in a lecturing kind of way>. She then tells me that i know that she has a hard time showing her emotions and talking about stuff so i didnt continue to push the issue.