Thinking of this more of a developmental stage helped with that. Now I think of it about the same way I thought of toilet training. It will be messy, expect setbacks, and it'll be done when its done - all on someone else's timeline. Oh yes, and the harder you try, the longer it takes.
I love that ^^^^.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
