cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[ClingingToHope]

I am going through those emotions too. I want it to be over -- but then it's over and deep down I don't want it to be.

My sitch is similar to vIolin's, STBXW took off the ring BEFORE we split up and she gave it back to me last month. Since the split we've had exactly one conversation where I sensed any chance for us and that was October 2009.

I guess it's easier because she isn't giving me any false hope, but it's harder too because it makes me doubt there was every any love for me.

Smart move on telling him only to discuss S. I refuse to talk to STBXW about anything other than the kids -- and unless it's something that has to be done that day I'm keeping it to email.