While I agree that you do know your husband best out of anyone here, the people here know what most MLCers are going to do (say, act, respond) (statistically) and what is going to help the LBSer.
Advice here is offered with the intent to help you, based off of DB, and firsthand experience, both good and more importantly BAD.
What I came to understand is that I knew my PRE-BOMB husband the best, but the inhabited alien I was living with post-bomb was, unfortunately, not the same person.
As I walk this journey and get farther and farther down my path I keep discovering that stuff I was being told a while back is just starting to make sense now. I spent a lot of time "I know, I know"ing my way through the early end of this, I honestly thought our situation was unique in many ways. I'm NOT saying that's you ... just keep reading, keep learning ... keep moving forward ...
Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Alot of us here have fallen into pits we'd rather you avoid, but most kids need to touch the stove to learn some lessons. : )
Damn stove :P
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
