I agree completely with PEI. Only you know your sitch the best. I'm just trying to make sure you keep your eyes wide open. I speak from experience since I TOO ended up rekindling sex with H while OW (who HAD a PA) was still in the picture. I knew it when I did it and thought I was OK. I soon realized I wasn't and had to pull back a bit for my own well-being. And like you, sex was one of our issues. Stay strong and keep us updated!
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11