This is such a tough topic. There's very little he can do -- aside from quitting his job.
I guess it depends on how important the marriage is to him, and to what extent he feels you're serious about your boundaries.
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He knows how I feel, and he says he understands and respects that.
I don't get the impression that he "respects" that one whit. I've read all of your past sitch, and I'm sorry to say, but I don't think he takes you seriously at all.
Starsky
Deep down, I know you are right. I'm too attached, to afraid of losing this M to rock the boat. I'm afraid that he will chose her/the job over me.
Okay, that is a pathetic realization. Time to stop worrying about losing his love, which I don't have, and to determine what *I* want and need from a relationship.
Me: 36 H: 36 S9 (from my previous marriage) D2 Bomb-date: 4/7/10 10/10 Giving it six months to see what happens
