kml, I'll go against the grain here and say if you think it's weird to date younger guys then don't because it probably is.
My personal opinion is that people trying to date 10+ year older people are needy for mommy/daddy like figures, sugar mammas/dadys or more than likely in the case of younger guys they think it's easier to have flings this way without having a lot of emotional attachment. Of course there are exceptions too but more than likely it'll probably end up hurting you unless you can just do it for fun.
Just curious, why not date someone in the 5-10yr plus/minus range? I'm sure they're out there and many take care of themselves too. I know a couple of people I work with, they're more ripped than me in their late 40s- and they're in SD too
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again