Probably the most common mistake we (men) make is that we don't really listen (especially if we've heard it before). Just listening sometimes without trying to fix things ( and bonus points for saying "tell me more" and not falling asleep--drink coffee--it helps) just a couple of times a week or so turns out to be really important.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-