Fall Girl,

Oy ....How complicated all of this sounds.

As you have probably found out since learning about MLC you just can't worry about all the if's and scenarios that could be.

You need to take each day as it comes and don't borrow trouble.

Have you made your needs known to him? Have you shown him how much you appreciate the things he does do and made him "feel" appreciated?

MLC'ers need to have their egos stroked quite a bit, as they are depressed little fellows who thrive on beating themselves up for everything.

Can you just sit back and try to enjoy the Holiday season?

Try and involve him a bit more?

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.