Should I stay, or should I go now?

[WithoutANet]

That means he sees himself as the victim here. He can't stand that it's not about him. This is more immature behavior.

When you get emotional he gets nice, he feels needed by you and he can fix you. It shows he cares but he could be co-dependent (not healthy.)

Time for H to put on his big boy underoos.

Sounds like this advice STILL applies, W.A.N., no?


Starsky

Yep! He's a fixer. It's his archtype -- being the rescuer. 'Cept once he rescues the damsel, he's pretty much done with her.