Make sure you get a child custody schedule put into place quickly. DO NOT let her bully you on that! You make the schedule that YOU want. This is one thing that I wish I was strong enough to do right 1.5 years ago. Now I have less than 50/50 custody.
Yes...can't do 50/50 up front until I get my own place but I would like to write a graduated schedule if possible e.g. 70/30 in the beginning then 60/40 then 50/50
I'm no attorney, but if I were HERS, I would say "Judge, it sounds like Mr. Loweind51 wants His Honor to afford him on-the-job training, where the children are concerned. We object to that, Your Honor, and would humbly suggest that if Mr. Loweind51 doesn't feel he's prepared to care for his children 50% of the time, that the Court would allow my client her motion for full (or 70%, or whatever) permanent custody."
