I did not have my own place either but looking back on it, it would have been hard but I could heve done it. My xw and her L decided that they had set a "precident" with her being the sole caregiver. I did not have the cash to fight it out and I had to settle. If you want 50/50 do it now.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final