Looking for help with WAW - 2

[mza8]

Update.

W emailed me last night. She said it was a difficult email for her to write but she wanted to give me information and ask me a question rather than the alternative. Said she filed for D last week and her L needs to give me the paperwork. Said I could stop by her L’s office to pick it up or they can serve me with it. Said that after all we have been through I might prefer to pick it up rather than be served. She finished by saying there was no easy way for her to ask me this and she hopes I understand why she wanted to tell me first. Said to please let her know how I want to proceed with getting the papers.

My guess is the only reason she sent me this email is because they already tried to serve me at the old house but of course I’m not living there anymore. She tells me she filed last week. Wrong. She filed two weeks ago and the service went out two days after. So the service has been out for over a week and a half. I think her L told her they couldn’t serve me at the old house and to find out where to serve me. W knows where I am living now.

This email makes my stomach turn. This BS about it being a difficult email for her to write…please. Talking about all we’ve been through, no easy way for her to ask me this and she hopes I understand why she wanted to tell me first. BS! Once again she took the easy way out. She could have informed me about her filing for D when we spoke on the phone for 20 minutes on Monday. Nope, she can’t do anything in person or over the phone so she’ll take path of least resistance and send an email.

What’s she’s referring to about all we have been through in regards to being served is because I was served many times when my company was going out of business. It wasn’t a fun time. So I guess she’s thinking she will try to spare me from being served by her by telling me up front. Again, she’s not being up front. It took her two weeks to tell me she filed for D? Come on. The only reason she wants to tell me first is because I’m sure they already tried to serve me and I wasn’t at the old house. I really doubt she’s doing me any favors.

Part of me wants to respond and tell her that I already knew and ask why she waited two weeks to tell me. Also ask her why she didn’t tell me on the phone on Monday. I seriously doubt that it was a difficult email for her to write. I think the only difficult part for her was that she actually had to contact me. I will not pick up the papers from her L’s office…give me a break. She wants a D and wants me to run to pick up her D papers to me? LOL. No, she can have me served. That won’t bother me.

Anyway, just need to vent a little. I would like to ask her the questions about why she didn’t tell me sooner and ask her why it’s difficult for her. Also ask her what she hopes I understand about her wanting to tell me first. Tell her I am curious as to why she waited untl after I signed the house listing extension to tell me about her filing D. Not sure what asking any of that really gets me. I’m not going to respond angrily as that serves no purpose. It does bother me that she waited until after I signed the paperwork to extend the house listing to inform me that she filed for D. Yes, I already knew but that's not the point. She had an opportunity to be honest with me earlier and she didn't.

Thoughts?