Originally Posted By: Ruikee
So she then says, i know you are not going to like this and it will be hard to take, but my pastor has been talking about forgiveness, and i have asked God to forgive me for marrying you. The marriage wasnt ordained by God, it was a convenience thing


Wow.

Originally Posted By: Ruikee
So we kept walking and trick or treating, then she says, you know there is absolutely no chance for reconciliation this time.


Let her go.

Dropping the rope while kids are involved - remain cordial/polite with your wife but keep convoersations to a minimum and only about co-parenting. She doesn't see a chance for reconciliation ( per her words) so remove yourself from being "there" for her. Go out, get a new shirt, new hair cut, meet up with friends, go tot the gym, be a good father, get a new hobby.... GAL!