Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[gr8 day 2B alive]

You'd think once out of high school that mess would stop

It's funny you say this. Our mutual friend did tell me my W felt like she was back in High school when she and her GF went out.

I do believe GF had/has a strong influence in my W.

I also believe m W will put more blame on me for her actions over the past year. Justifying why she did what she did.

For someone who just needed "time" it doesn't seem right to me that it meant playing they field to figure out things.

In fact things didn't change until she found out that I was dating.

She said she tried for 8 years with me and that I only tried 6 months.

I replied to her:
"The more I tried to work on us the more I pushed you away, so I stopped. Especially when I asked you in May if D is something you wanted. You replied yes.
I asked you if D is the best thing for us and again you said yes. These were two direct answers from you. What would one think when these things are said?"

I know what I need now in a healthy M.

These will be discussed when we talk. I will not get all melty man with her. I'm too strong and confident now to allow that to happen.