Yeah, you're right, what can it hurt now?

I just can't imagine raising 2 kids for the next 13 and 16 years like this.

M-38
W-37
T-16,M-11 (Oct 30,1999)
S-5
S-2
Wife left 7/4/2010

"When life hands you a lemon, say, 'Oh yeah, I like lemons! What else ya got?"
— Henry Rollins