Yep, arguing about when, why, she slept with someone is beside the point-it is a losing battle to argue with a WAW. Agreeing with her by saying, "I am happy you found someone, I want to find someone too." is just another form of letting them go. What is that old saying about freeing a caged bird?
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final