When I talked to my wife she kept on over and over saying that she wasn't good enough for me, that she thinks I deserve better, that she's not good enough for anybody and that she should be alone. I asked her why she felt this way and she said she alwys felt this way
You didn't make her feel special. Who knew you were responsible for that, eh?
Haven't read the rest of your situation, and the brief version isn't in your signature, so I won't say more (e.g. should you or should you not undertake affirming her specialness? Depends on your situation).
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-