Congratulations on having and following a very pro-active strategy. I say this because of one of the other recent posts which seemed to question the wisdom of your approach, suggesting that they had more insight into your husband's motives than anyone could possibly have.
OYS2,
This seems to be a pattern with you, where you pop onto people's threads and criticize the help and advice they've received so far. What gives?
Zen -- like all posters -- are free to use or discard any advice they're given, if they don't feel it suits their sitch. There's really no reason to delegitimize the help that she gets.
