When I talked to my wife she kept on over and over saying that she wasn't good enough for me, that she thinks I deserve better, that she's not good enough for anybody and that she should be alone. I asked her why she felt this way and she said she alwys felt this way.
"I am sorry you feel that way, but you cannot know how much I value your presence in our R because you can't read my mind."
Originally Posted By: Db9
She started going on about how much more around the house I did after working a full time job while she was only part time and going to school.
"I am perfectly content with the amount of effort I put into our household and I do whatever it takes for our family. If you want to help I will appreciate it. What would you be willing to do to help me?"
Originally Posted By: Db9
She talked about us not having the amount of sex and the kind of sex I wanted and that I deserved.
You can't talk yourself into the sex you want and deserve. You need to become attractive to her. Catnip, my friend. She needs to feel comfortable, secure and loved. Read my thread and what Coach keeps saying.
Originally Posted By: Db9
She seemed sad when I was talking to her. But when I tried to validate she just went in circles.
She was sad because she looked for you make her feel better. You need to validate her feelings but understand that she does not want to feel that way. What would you do to make her feel different?
She is asking for your support. She wants to be happy. what does it take?
