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You know what, Dan? It's NOT okay.


There ya go. It's really not OK, is it? So... that's a boundary: if you have something to say to me, you will address me with a modicum of respect.

How do you enforce it? With actions:

1. Ignore him. Don't reward bad behavior.

2. Keep the nasty texts, show them to your lawyer, and ask for his advice on possible legal rememdies should it continue.


My thoughts on this are ... given his choices, he needs to share these emotions with his therapist and girlfriend.

But the snarky part of me wants to say, "Dan, you smooth talker you. I bet you make all the ladiers blush".


M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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