Partner left after 9 yrs - reconciled now married!

[AliSuddenly]

Thats interesting Michelle, the 3D scan is only just catching on here! I wouldnt have one though, it seems a little too invasive to me.

I'm feeling ok, incredibly tired but I havent had any bad morning sickness at least, so gotta be grateful!

Things carry on as normal. A few days ago, H buried his head in me and said in a wierd way "I love you..." I laughed at the heartfelt/odd way he said it and said I should hope so, I'm pregnant with your child! He said "No, but I do, I really do, I really love you"... He couldnt explain what this was about, but felt to me like he is getting past his guilt now into some kind of acceptance and that the past is healed and maybe, just how lucky he really is to be back in this place.

My BFF is trying to separate from her H, who she still loves. She is a WAW and he is in full bargaining/denial mode. I have been able to advise her really well on why he behaves as X, or what she should do because of my DB experience and it feels good to be able to help. I tell her to ignore his day to day knee jerk reactions and threats about money and the kids, that these things are always in flux and it takes a looooong time to really shake out.

Patience.....