You know what, Dan? It's NOT okay. I smile and wave and try to be patient and understanding, but enough is enough. I am not your personal whipping boy to be lashed out at whenever you are having a bad day. I am the mother of your children and I am the one who actually WAS faithful and reliable throughout our marriage, so spare me the "thanks to you I can't trust women" garbage. Perhaps you should stop hanging out with women who A) Were willing to cheat on their husbands with you and/or B) Put out for the highest bidder
Bottom line, I deserve to be treated with love and respect, period. So unless/until you can speak to me in that way, do not speak to me at all.