Change is in the air........

[MHL]

GAG,

This is great news!! Go ahead spike the football in the endzone and do a little dance, but keep it short as you don't want to get penalized and you are certainly not done with the game.

Moving forward, you need to view XH as a "guy" you are wanting to go out with......that is it. I know how much you love him and that is what makes it hard.....gotta keep that heart of yours in check....use your head from here on out.

No more pressure on him with talk of how he used to be, or his R with you, his BMF, or his current GF......unless he brings it up and then you are only listening. You can mildly "grunt" every now and then to let him know you are listening. LOL (grunting is manspeak BTW).

Seriously, how would you act and what would you say to a guy that you had been on a couple of dates with????

Keep up the flirting, it doesn't take much, subtle is better. And if things move to get real physical (advanced ping pong lessons) then let it happen. No worries about the GF who is on the way out. Your XH wants a R with no pressure right now and she has probably already started pressuring again. You need to be the non-pressure option.

Here is the real hard part moving forward......Time and Patience.

Don't be surprised if things do not necessarily progress further next week. He may be testing the waters with you, who knows??? He does seem to be able to switch the days you guys play TT fairly easily which is good but do not read anything into it.

Just keep on doing what you are doing, and above all else do not focus on this too much........tell us what GAG is doing for herself too!!!

Oh, BTW......Happy Little Friday!!!!

Cheers