I haven't filled out or filed the court papers yet. I'm just so nervous about making H hate me. I feel it would be a very adversarial move and I'm not willing to do that right now.
M, you're thinking about this backwards. H should be concerned about you hating him. H has f*(ked up on a massive scale; think about YOU: your needs, your wants, your DS, etc.
Whether or not you want to file is a totally diff story. If you feel unwilling/unable to file, that's fine. That is your choice. But H leaving you & DS, shacking up w/whore & starting another family (while still tangled in current one) is quite adversarial. Think about YOU and DS. Those are the 2 folks that matter most here.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
