IMOP, I do not think you are off base in feeling what you do. You have to remember that man you said i do to is not the man carrying on at this moment. is he an alien? Will he return, only time will tell.
Nice goals. Keep Galing, focus on your kidos. Quite possibley it is time for you to dim, only talk to him ONLY if necessary and about the kids. Let him have the chance to wonder about what you are doing.
Rate now he is getting attention for his choices and with someone who is selfish and immature any attention makes him feel good.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
