Thanks friends. After attending a "parenting after divorce" class tonight I"m on the downside of the rollercoaster again. BAsically there's no getting around it - divorce traumatizes children for life.
And I just worry that the NC makes it even more stressful for S. I know that having parents who argue and are stressed is no good for him. HOwever, it's also depressing for them when parents don't talk at all and the little child's life is suddenly ripped apart and divided between two loyalties. I cannot express my proufound resentment and anger at H for putting S through this.
Besides that, mediation is first thing friday morning and I'm very scared. But, onward and upward!!!Any prayers for my S most welcome. (())
