Thanks for stopping by my thread. I check in on your thread when I have time. You have been getting great counsel!
I am VERY sorry that you were served papers. That is a very difficult time. It is VERY difficult to smile and 'act as if' when your heart is breaking. Jody always said that working with H/XH during these negotiations instead of fighting him, supercharges the 180s. I knew it would cost a lot more money to contest the D and that I would most certainly drive H away for good if I did this. I am the only person I know personally ( , not talking about the blog) who has managed to maintain a friendly R with XH after a D. We would not be where we are now if I hadn't led the way through that stage. Jody and the DB blog were a Godsend for me.
, not talking about the blog) who has managed to maintain a friendly R with XH after a D. We would not be where we are now if I hadn't led the way through that stage. Jody and the DB blog were a Godsend for me.
