cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

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I can't understand why he still wears his wedding band? My xw took hers off the night of the bomb and never put it back on. She even stopped wearing her mothers ring a few months ago. She has never given me any sort of false hope like a lot of the people on this site. I can only imagine how much harder it would have been if she HAD kept her rings on, kept family pictures up, and called me about sentimental things. She is now dating someone new and it was finally that straw that broke my back. I will always love the mother of my daughters but she destroyed the love I had for her as my wife.

I thought you did the right thing by telling him your personal boundary. At a point it is no longer healthy for the LBS to have too much contact with the WAS.