Jin, I actually came back to check on you. I hope you check back in. I'm really proud of you - of us! We are too good to put up with what we've been put through. I agree with what the folks are saying about kiddos. It's the only thing I worry about now. However, I know that I will be able to show him a better life and someday he will know how hard I fought against this person who I am convinced will become his step mom.
You amazed and inspired me! I'll check back in a few to see if you post to this, but I'd love to exchange email addresses to continue the support.
Strong, beautiful, intelligent, loving, faithful, moral....these are words you should always remember describe you! You and Allen will forever be etched in my memory as people I never met that got me through one of the most difficult times of my life.
(oddly enough, I recently read some dreams I recorded during those time in my journal. I don't even sort of remember writing it or having those dreams. That's when I realized how distraught I really had been and was grateful for how far I'd come)
Take care of you! Thank you!
Me:38 H: 45 OW:34 S:4 Bonus S: 12 and 16 2nd M for both Together 12 yrs M: 6 EA suspected: 5/10 confirmed: 7/2/10 Separated: 8/12/10