Thanks everyone for the discussion earlier on when to send the letter to his parents etc.
I think I was feeling a little emotional today, drank caffeine and got a little crazy. I don't think it is the right time right now. I will let this play out a little longer... we aren't corresponding right now and I think it is a good thing. I do think he is probably deeper in the A.
He is about to get a letter from my L that says we will answer him after the 1st of the year. Even though he says I can take as much time as I need, his actions haven't reflected that. He came to me only 5 days ago to again hound me for a retirement account letter. He is living in inner turmoil... and now he is about to find out that I pretty much hired one of the best L in town and he has to wait two months to move closer to end living two lives. I think I will see how that goes over before proceeding with the letter. I also don't think outright exposure to them is a good idea. Ahh, the up and down of emotions!
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
