I'm glad to see that your RL party went well. When's the virtual party?
If Mr.Rocked is serious about wanting back in and you decide that you will try again, he will do what it takes and give you the space and time to let him back in. Simple. You know that you can make it without him , so you will not be operating from a place of fear and desperation.
WAS can't walk away or run from themselves and the truth forever, as much as they'd like to. That's why they keep their lives in a state of constant busyness. So that they don't have time to slow down and think and confront their emotions head-on. That may not be an entirely fair statement, though. I think they do deal with pain at some point - the pain of having unmet needs in a M is what leads many of them to an affair or to walk away. Having felt that pain, they then needed to take subsequent steps in dealing with that pain within the M instead of outside.
Rocked, continue to be your absolutely fabulous self. And I will certainly continue to be mine. Yes, modesty may not appear to be my strong suit but a woman's gotta know her self-worth. I will never settle for less than what I deserve from a man and I know you won't either!!! I think we are ready for world domination, sweetie!!!
