online dating tips, do-over

[soleil]

I don't just blast off 100 duplicate emails to see what comes back.

AND I got matched with my XW! Turns out we are a match made in heaven with a 93% match! lol

TOO funny! That made me laugh

East Coast guy has been warned that I will probably date local guys and might fall for one someday - but he persists in acting as if he is my boyfriend, I do worry he's gonna get hurt.

Kml, he is far far away from you. He may "act" like a boyf but he's totally not. Keep the converseation open. If he asks if you are dating, be honest. You can say "I met up with one guy, very casual, etc."

And how about 40 something scientist? If he wants to meet, do I go ahead, knowing I have a date pending with 30 something guy? It's really too early to say I'm "seeing someone".

You are not tied to any of these guys. Go out, have fun, you're not in a relationship with any of them. Enjoy yourself. 40-yr old scientist sounds interesting, even if it's just the job title.

I guess what I'm asking about is the etiquette of dating multiple people at the same time? I mean, I haven't done that since my pre-sexually active teen days. I certainly wouldn't be sleeping with two guys at the same time. I guess I'm just asking about overlapping dates, when no relationship has progressed to that point yet?

You're not having sex, you are just going out casually to meet/see these guys. You owe no one anything so just have fun. And come back with a full report, Miss!