Here is my question- if there is anyone out there who has a thought on it. How do you leave the door open for reconciliation and still stand up for yourself when they are moving out? One thing that he doesn't like about me is that he feels I always have to win an argument. So in my 180 I have tried to back off a bit and listen to his opinion. But it is hard when he is moving into an apartment that we can't really afford and doesn't want to have to pay for his part of the mortgage.
