<<Honestly it is unbelievable the amount of guilt trip he tries to put you on and his obvious self-denial in his immense contribution to the demise of your marriage.>>
I do not mean to pile on here...really i don't.... Why anyone would want to have anything to do with soemone who writes his ex wife a text like that (out of the blue)..... THAT IS WHAT IS UNBELIVABLE TO ME!!!! and no that is not a typo...
BBJ could you imagine sending him a similar tex???(you probably have more right to do so than he does). Nooooo, why? Because you are not broken as our buddy WOOG used to say. Dan is broken beyond belief...who the hell writes this stuff??? It would barely be pallatable if you had wronged him 50 times like he did you.....
I understand with your history together and the fact that you live in a small town how difficult it can be to detach (only real boyfriend etc).....but at the risk of repeating myself you can and will do better....
