Good to hear from you again R2C. I wrote a couple of novels. My big issue is that I would like to see some movement towards reconciliation from W.
Found some ladies when I was out with my brother last weekend. Identified them at the first bar, introduced myself at the second bar, bought them a drinks and danced with them for hours at the third bar. They seemed sort of attracted. Didn't really have a chance to talk much as it was loud in the bar.
Talked to another woman who's husband filed on her in June about the same time as my wife. We had things in common and she was pretty hard-up to hook-up, but I didn't. Talked to her for a little while.
I'm still a little nervous about approaching women though. I think I surprised the guys I was with by dancing pretty aggressively with the girls I met. The were pretty good looking too. We ended up leaving the bar before they did and I didn't get any phone numbers. I didn't even think to ask!!!! How dumb is that? Way out of practice. I really don't know how to do this. All of the girls I dated previously I met at work and got to know them first. That is the best way for me, I think. The guys I was with said I did great! I'm learning.
I just heard on the radio today that people who get together when they are 19 yrs old have only about a 10% chance to stay together for life. W and I met when I was 20 and she was 21. Maybe the odds were stacked against us from the start.
I'm generally doing VERY well and having fun most of the time.