Always and Forever??????

[glamgirl]

Wow, 25 I love your posts and teachings. I can relate. You give good advice. I am checking into retrovaille. Thank you!

Sorry IB to hear it has progressed to the big D. I don't know what that would be like to be served papers. I do know that you will eventually get to a place of peace.

The best advice I can give you, is the faster you can get to a place of unstuck the better this will all be. I know that I personally spent way to much time analyzing thinking what about this and that being angry, sad, resentful, depressed. Way to much time was consumed with above.

25 is right though about saying as little as possible to others. Makes it easier if/when a reconciliation occurs. Also, 25 is so right on you don't really know what an MLC'er is thinking and feeling.

Now that my h is home, I know that he was consumed with severe severe depression and a total confusion. I know there wasn't a day that didn't go by where he didn't think of me and the kids. He was just too stuck in depression and confusion to do anything about it.

Just stopping in to see how your doing. Hang in there! You will be fine regardless and that is the picture you want to portray to others.

Hugs!