I DO have a question for you all, though. Now that I suddenly have an embarrassment of riches (East Coast admirer, 30-something local guy, 40 something LA scientist, as well as persistent and charming way-too-young guy)I'm a bit flummoxed as to how to handle it all. I have never been the kind of girl who juggled multiple guys.
East Coast guy has been warned that I will probably date local guys and might fall for one someday - but he persists in acting as if he is my boyfriend, I do worry he's gonna get hurt. Do I TELL him when I start dating (I do expect to have a REAL date with 30-something guy in near future - we have already met for drinks once and he is interested) or not mention it further unless I get seriously involved with someone?
And how about 40 something scientist? If he wants to meet, do I go ahead, knowing I have a date pending with 30 something guy? It's really too early to say I'm "seeing someone".