I'm thinking you should let W do the bulk of the talking. Has W even shown you any sort of change that gives you faith to work on R the M?
W saying 'I want in' isn't quite the same as W doing/proving worth. If that makes sense. I'm just playing devil's advocate here.
Obviously this is a deal breaker for you. That's fine, right and healthy for you. I'd imagine W is going to be skittish for a little. Is laying this out at the gate going to make things easier or more difficult to R? I guess that is the crux of things.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10