Starsky, I just reread your post and realized I misunderstood what you said... You're saying not to let him getting angry get in the way of doing the right thing.
If I knew it was the right thing, I wouldn't let his anger persuade me... Unfortunately, I don't know what is the right thing.

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."