Hi M,

L told me we have to go to court for a few things: support, my clothing and health insurance. H's L is not responding to my L. I assume H is not responding to his L. Or just being a spiteful jerk.

I went and got some winter things yesterday. If I lose the clothes, so be it. But the support and insurance I'm not backing down on.

H wants this to go all his way: he gets the house, the dog, my engagement ring, the $$$ and I walk away w/nothing and continue being his friend. He has actually said this to me, more than once. I say no way and the court is probably going to enforce that as well.

Staying dark isn't a problem. I want to be as far away as possible. The man is toxic to my sanity.


M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

Soapie:
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2: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized2
3: http://tiny.com/vulcanized3